Finger-oriented interface on phones

I always liked to use a real keyboard on the phone, even if it was small. But tactile sensations cannot be discounted. "Click on the button, you will get the result," as sang in the song of the group "Technology".

Since I started using touchscreen communicators, I’ve come to the idea that Windows Mobile is simply not working with my fingers.
Historically, Windows Mobile has been sharpened to work with a stylus. Such a little stick-picker to click on the same small buttons, tabs and check-boxes.

The new version of WM 6.5 introduced almost nothing new. Is it possible to consider as a global refinement the fact that the size of the buttons was simply increased by 2-3 times? Pressing the button often also does not produce any immediate result: neither the edging, nor the graphic design of the pressed state, nor the sound design, and again no tactile sensations.
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What would you like to do really:

• Graphic buttons by default in all applications, as was done by themes in Windows XP
• Using the vibra to press on the buttons and other controls that you can press
• Customizable pressing sound, for the button one, for selecting the textbox another
• Drawing the buttons without delay in the main form, but not as it is now: first the background, then the textbox, then the buttons, then the text, etc.

Actually what I wanted to ask your thoughts on this topic? What else is missing in the interface?