Freedom for parrots and ... women

“If you love a woman - give her freedom! If she returns to you, she will never leave you again. If she left you, she would never be with you! ”

- spoke one of my friend

A very strange position, but if we proceed from the fact that it was the girl who said this, then, in principle, there is nothing strange. In this article I will write what exactly I think about this.

And so, according to her, if you love a girl, then you must give her full freedom with the words "I will wait for you ..". Why? Why should I wait? Why do I have to wait for Someone? Naturally, freedom is necessary for any person, but in this context it sounds rather absurd and defiant.

“If she comes back ...” What did she think that someone would wait for her to walk up and return to warm hands with the words “dear, I will now be with you” ... How “dear” can be sure that that tomorrow she will not tell him this phrase of 32 words, referring to the fact that "She has not yet returned ..."? “If she left you, it means she would never be with you!” If she left you, that means she would be with you, if you would be good together (of course, cases of “girl for the night” are not considered here ). If a girl behaves like this in life, then she’s not able to see normal guys, because if after the phrase “give her freedom” she goes “if she comes back to you ..”, then an adequate young man will understand that he is used as a “spare aerodrome"…

It is also true that freedom to want to take a walk “out with that guy” is good. Let even walk. And if after that she turns her attention to him (even in thoughts), then this already means that she has not returned. I mean, if she is free to choose and at the same time she chooses you again, then “she will never leave you again”, otherwise “she has never been with you” (and waited for the option at least a bit better).

But the fact that she "waited for the option at least a bit better," infuriates me, because instead of enjoying bright feelings or finding out everything, she "waited for the option" without telling her soulmate about it ... "Often skillfully concealed, I tend to relate to this a little easier and not to think much about" her attention to others. "

No, do not think, I consider myself to be quite jealous people, but to be jealous of every look at the other guys is not normal.



I respect the opinions of people, so do not blame her. But God forbid someone to meet a girl with a similar life credo.