About the human factor

The formalization of relationships is a forced occurrence. In essence, formalization acts as a kind of “preliminary protection” for those who do not want to be either wrong in the future, or misunderstood, or simply vulnerable ... and so on. Many people believe that if they act formally in every situation that they would like to control or subordinate to themselves, they at the same time secure themselves against possible failures, and at the same time get rid of the captivity of preferences, feelings and values ​​in those moments when the last thing you want to take in the calculation is so global life circumstances. But sadly another. Namely, the fact that we often do not seek to get away from formalities and move on to informal relationships. And it is important to do just the opposite wherever it may be. Formalizing a relationship requires mental activity. Informal communication - intuitions and the urge of feelings and emotions. Formalization requires courtesy, attentiveness, knowledge of etiquette, requires to keep in mind many factors that are relevant at the moment. The human factor requires only sincerity and your personal merits. If you can be honest in this situation without harm to the outcome, feel free to switch to informal communication. It is simpler, more pleasant, more productive. Formal communication is very useful at an early stage of contact, but no more. Often, even formalization leads to an escalating conflict, when your interlocutor starts to take a trite revenge for the fact that he cannot be himself, communicating with you on a formal level for quite a long time. People want freedom, and this freedom is precisely to be what we are.