Married to a programmer
I saw similar discussions already in different forums, but I could not find any distinct thoughts.
So the actual question: why women marry IT people. What is special about them, what attracts - not in the sexual sense, but in the sense of creating a family.
After all, it is no secret to anyone that the type cultivated in films about programmers - hardened, bespectacled nerd, whose eyes are burning at the sight of a new board, and who cannot communicate with people - is somewhat truthful. At least in the fact that people are addicted for whom work often coincides with a hobby. As a result, reality fades into the background. And computer people, with all their intellect, are not very adapted to life in our (especially Russian) reality.
And their interests are far from the interests of "ordinary" people, so there are not too many common topics for discussion either. Although, of course, they can get a lot of versatile information from the Internet - but the things connected with computers are really interesting for them.
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It turns out that a computer geek is an unenviable party? Or is there something in them that makes one believe in the reliability of the nest being created?
Or most of the "computer people" are not so computer? And they are even quite interested in all those simple joys that most other men do? And they are not special?
PS: everywhere in the text, the merit of "them" can be safely replaced by "us." If you wish, of course :)
So the actual question: why women marry IT people. What is special about them, what attracts - not in the sexual sense, but in the sense of creating a family.
After all, it is no secret to anyone that the type cultivated in films about programmers - hardened, bespectacled nerd, whose eyes are burning at the sight of a new board, and who cannot communicate with people - is somewhat truthful. At least in the fact that people are addicted for whom work often coincides with a hobby. As a result, reality fades into the background. And computer people, with all their intellect, are not very adapted to life in our (especially Russian) reality.
And their interests are far from the interests of "ordinary" people, so there are not too many common topics for discussion either. Although, of course, they can get a lot of versatile information from the Internet - but the things connected with computers are really interesting for them.
')
It turns out that a computer geek is an unenviable party? Or is there something in them that makes one believe in the reliability of the nest being created?
Or most of the "computer people" are not so computer? And they are even quite interested in all those simple joys that most other men do? And they are not special?
PS: everywhere in the text, the merit of "them" can be safely replaced by "us." If you wish, of course :)
Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/44969/
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