Politeness is humiliation

I recently had this dialogue in IRC:

Someone: ale
Someone: Gimme a Prodigy
Besheniy_Homyachok: I'll give you :) You have a computer zashar, and you ham, as I can have a look :)
Someone: as you wish
Someone: I will not become smart for the sake of what you would give me
Besheniy_Homyachok: since when politeness is humiliation?
Someone: all
Someone: drove
Someone: do not teach me
Someone: I know how I communicate

I, of course, understand that the interlocutor is just still at a young age, but can politeness really be a humiliation now? To be cultured is to be humiliated?
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