One gets the feeling that only a lazy person doesn’t say about customer orientation and striving for the “Win-Win” model. But, moreover, the “tacit war” continues: the performers scream “arrogant” customers, condemning them in their cozy places, and customers gather at a bar on Friday evening to squeeze a tear of disappointment and complain to friends about the “unprofessionalism” of the next unfortunate developers / marketologists. Everyone pulls the blanket over himself, trying to make Win-Lose in his favor. And in the end it turns out "Lose-Lose". Although it is obvious that 95% of the market on each side is quite adequate, everyone has strengths worthy of respect.
How to stop this senseless "struggle"? Let us examine specific theses without water and tedious philosophy.
PS: this is not a categorical attitude, claiming the ultimate truth, but rather an appeal to the market. I would be sincerely happy if it helps at least a few “duet” (this is the correct form of cooperation).
Despite the loud statements about the "individual approach", most likely you are now working in the "relationship" mode (yes, this is a fictional term, do not even try to search).
Even the old Google knows that you need not to take away , but to understand.
Example:
Client: “ I’ll ask them for a discount .”
Contractor: " Let 's try to inflate the estimate ."
The classic situation, demonstrating attempts at mutual cost per price. Even if the potential customer does not leave, this deflection will make itself known in a month or two of work. True intentions somehow manifest themselves.
Why it happens?
It is like the principle of a pendulum: you swing it in one direction - an answer comes right away. So the responsibility shifts. People create unnecessary borders for nobody, trying to defend their “camp” (of course, no one has canceled a harsh reality: the market determines conditions, it is impossible to constantly “give in”, moderation is needed in everything).
If in your picture of the world there were no businesses / teams that thought of the other side, then this is sad. I assure, based on my experience: they are. I saw many clients who were delighted with the advance of the schedule of work and offered to “not rush”, even despite the approach of the deadline. I also saw performers who discouraged the client from the service for which he was already ready to pay. Why? Because they have a different mindset.
Typical position of "selfish":
Obviously, you need to always be at least one foot in the “camp” / “skin” of the other side. I will not explain banal things, we go further.
Relatively recently, he voiced this principle - that is, it is no longer new, I am not discovering America within the framework of this material. If you don’t know how your “opponents” think and what their heads hurt about, this game will always end in “Lose-Lose”.
Check yourself.
Quotes:
The contractor for 4 years was not interested in the state of affairs on the client side. 4 years without feedback, without thinking about what could be the area of risk and consequences. Do your accounts also get in touch only closer to the invoice date?
The client wants transparency: if a task is not fulfilled on time (even if it takes into account your workload), he has the right to be notified and explained. When you "apologize" on the otzovike site in the comments under the negative - it's not bad, but it's too late. Do not forget that someone could already slap someone on a hat, forbidding the following account to be paid by the accounting department.
The guys might not be offended, but the sediment remained on both sides. They didn’t find out / fix the “dreams” or promised the “golden mountains”. Classic.
On the face of internal organizational problems in which they were afraid to admit, and could not “disguise”. But the trouble is not only in this. One-sided thinking is also obvious here: the guys are digging into their processes. Perhaps the output would have been [a] cool product. But seasonality, Karl, seasonality! The customer has been waiting for this before.
See, some don't swear. The performer may not even be aware of the negative.
For the sake of justice, we will give an example from another point of view:
Dear customers! I urge not to use the good attitude of contractors. After all, you would be at least “unpleasant” (and at the most unprofitable), if your employees were driven to death by unpaid requests? Understand them: digital-business is built on the sale of staff time. Their “theft” is not prosecuted, but this is from the “Win-Lose” series - “my hut is on the edge”. Do not be offended if then the "pendulum" will strike in your direction.
And then there are other parties - partners, contractors, employees:
No comments. This is either a very angry employee, or the story is much larger than the psychological attitudes, and there is hardly one culprit here.
And there are many, many other stories (some of which may be fictional / high in subjectivity but still thought-provoking), full of horrors in the “shouldn't interest me”, “work while you’re alive”, “return me my blood "And so on.
This will be the shortest paragraph: create a common conceptual framework, not stint on the details.
There is a vocabulary - it's just a set of letters. And there is a sense - it can be much wider and more complex than letters. And it is not always endured "on a silver platter." Learn to read between the lines. Sometimes opponents unconsciously push us to very important conclusions:
But always keep in mind that someone extracts from the words the wrong meanings. Or right, but those that you would not want to "shoot".
How to avoid it? Think before you voice something, 3 steps forward.
Let us consider an example of a specific dialogue:
Obviously, you need to contact the ENT - problems with hearing, the parties do not hear each other.
Evaluating, we often incorrectly prioritize.
The artist may have a disgusting own site, few reviews, delays in responses. But besides, they make a very cool product (respectively: high demand → constant overload → no time for your marketing).
Being in the client's place , I would pay attention to the following:
Well, to personally communicate with those who have already worked with this candidate, never hurts. And this does not replace the usual monitoring of reviews.
And performers need to learn to look "deeper." Not everyone who comes, say, for promotion in organic search, just wants to buy monthly reports with beautiful numbers. Someone just needs to "make competitors" for certain indicators. And someone - to conduct an experiment to compare with other sources of traffic (yes, the low LTV can grow legs from here).
Learn to distinguish them from mistakes. Even with automated measurement of indicators in factory production, deviations of ± 2% are sometimes allowed. What to say about the human factor with us. A delay of 5 minutes, an extra pixel, a shortage of 0.5 hours in the report — for large-scale works, such figures have little value. If both sides focus on small things, they will lose in really important factors.
Immediately explain with an example. Articles and books teach performers to postpone the sound price at the latest stage. This is presented as a universal rule, although in fact it is not always useful. Therefore, the following dialogues are obtained:
- “How much does this service cost you?”
“Well, it depends on your requirements.”
- “We, as everyone, call the approximate cost”
- "Do you want a template or custom design?"
- [Mentally to myself: “How should I know, I'm not a professional. How much more will they torment me here? ” ] “ I don’t know, let it be an individual one ”
- “And with the basket + online payment we will do or just a directory + feedback form?”
- “Uh, everything is clear. We will call you back"
There is no sadder story in the world than the story of a frustrated client.
Artist, I appeal to you: would you endure this torture yourself if you were in its place? In the contracts, after all, write “the side of the Customer” with a capital letter (and someone even ignores the rules of the Russian language, when, communicating electronically, writes “You”), then why is this disrespect? Of course, the product is complex, this is B2B, here the comparison with displaying price tags in retail is not applicable. But you cannot escape the fate: if you are afraid of “scaring with the price”, you will do it after the presentation of the decision.
Therefore, the call-to-action is as follows: do not use thoughtlessly all-patterned advice (even the ones I have just mentioned). In sales, project management, etc. , you can answer general questions ala "How?" Only by listing 100,500 sub-items "If / In the case of ..." . This is the beauty of our sphere - there are always many alternative approaches.
Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/337724/
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