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Procrastination How to cage the demon who prevented to move towards the goal

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Why does it take more time to study rare autoimmune diseases than to search for a good doctor, and dirty dishes seem more important than a business plan?

Procrastination - a crime in which everyone is guilty.
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The main ingredient of success is action. To succumb to procrastination is the same as doing nothing at all. Another problem is that we still carry out our plans. Yes, we postpone until the last and wait for the deadline, but still get down to business. And this is bad, because there is a false confidence in the completion of the task, regardless of the time when the action begins.
Even worse when there is no deadline at all. How long can we wait until the opportunity is completely lost?

Life goals have no deadline, and therefore no consequences of its breakdown. So we can postpone indefinitely and take no action. But without action, there will be no results.

Take a simple example.

I have a great idea for the site, I can make a decent project. At the start-up it does not pull, but as a hobby a profitable one, completely. There is one problem: I am not an expert in web development, but this is easily solved - you need to ask a specialist for help, and the trick is done.

Active searches do not attract me, and therefore I decide to tell people about the project and let me know that I will be happy to help, someone will be interested and maybe I can quickly find a partner.
The plan is as follows: prescribe in detail the essence of the project on paper, create a target on Smartprogress , throw a call on social networks and continue to work with feedback.

But now a month out of four points nothing has been done. Walking the dog is more important than registering a plan, and then it's time to have lunch, and now the day is coming to an end.

Although, if you count it, it will take three hours to complete all the work, for there is no need to prescribe in detail. It is enough to convey the essence, and then in the dialogue we will already devote into details.

I repent, I am a sinner - I am a procrastinator

How to notice procrastination


Primary action: I postpone. For what time? It all depends on the task. Sometimes indefinitely.

The main signs of procrastination:


We know exactly what needs to be done and when. But to know is not to do. We are waiting for the deadline, as we are sure that we will have time at the last moment.

Procrastination is like a dose for a drug addict, it gives pleasant feelings. At the last moment we will take action and get a rush of adrenaline. So there is a dependence on postponing.

You do not always want to wait until the last minute, and we decide to start early. We start thinking, planning, but not acting!

Until we rest on the deadline.

We spend more time on anxiety than on business and are more nervous than we labor.
And then we feel a sense of guilt, as if excitement was not enough.


There are many thoughts on how to change life for the better, but there are so many responsibilities, and therefore you have to wait.

We are waiting for the right moment, because intuition will tell you better than a sense of duty.
Let's wait until the stars converge.

Failure to initiate action


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The number of excuses for procrastination is infinite, but the ability to invent them does not exempt from the consequences of unfulfilled cases.

There are several theories of procrastination. Some of them are about features of avoided tasks. It has been found that usually unpleasant, complicated, stressful and difficult things are set aside.

Others - about the procrastinator himself. It is trite, but less disciplined, thoughtful and not very successful people often suffer with procrastination.

The fact is that both theories are true. For procrastination, the combination of personality and task characteristics is important.

To cope with the desire to put everything off, you need to change either your attitude towards work or the work itself. For example, changing the goal is simple, but not everything can be abandoned. Then change yourself - all that remains.

Look into the brain


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Cognitive functions are involved in the pursuit of a goal; there are many of them: managing emotions, controlling impulses, attention, reasoning, but the main one is the executive function.

It is a subtle function in the brain, and it determines creativity, success, and satisfaction with life more than intelligence. It allows you to select, plan, adjust, track and stop actions.

Setting goals the brain consistently passes through all stages. But in order to do something, you need to know what and how exactly, and then start, execute and check the result.

To achieve the goal, it is necessary to get down to business, and the most important stage in the executive chain is initiation, it is a transition from plans to actions.

If initiation fails, we will not get down to business. It creates a gap between the formulation of ideas and goals and the beginning of actions. Lack of transition - procrastination.
A person can have brilliant ideas, high dreams and ambitious plans, but without initiation they will remain in my head.

Prerequisites for procrastination



Side effects


The consequences of procrastination are colossal - ideas remain in the head, and intentions do not turn into actions.
If you constantly weigh and doubt everything, the projects will remain on paper. And most importantly - your life can remain the same only because you gave priority to evading activities.

Dreams are turning into nightmares


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Putting off work, we will not turn the dream into reality. Procrastinators engage in self-deception and live in illusions, not realizing that every passing day costs more and more. They confuse the optimistic “start is never too late” with the crafty “until you can not start.”

Unreasonable confidence that there will be enough time turns into regret for lost chance.

Due to procrastination, a person is not ready for the opening opportunities. Chances appear by chance, out of nowhere, without warning, and do not stay long. You need to grab them, otherwise they will disappear.

Due to procrastination, the quality of work suffers: because of haste, it turns out to be untidy, careless, with errors.

If you postpone until the last, then there will be no time to review the work, correct mistakes, fill in the gaps, edit and arrange beautifully, develop ideas, refine skills and learn new ones.


A quality product takes time.



Procrastination is the seal of insecurity, putting it off until later, it is easy to pass for a person who does not call back, does everything with a delay or is slovenly at work.

Also, chronic procrastination strikes at self-confidence.

How to overcome procrastination


This is a powerful daily habit, and will have to be fought on many levels. Before you begin, you need to identify the pending obstacles, assess the risks, think about goals. And determining the steps to be done, answer the questions:


Seven strategies to combat procrastination


1. Fill the gaps in skills:



2. Decide on options



3. Refine results



A strong desire to get our plans will not let you go astray.

4. Cope with the novelty



Starting from scratch is both interesting and unusual and scary.

5. Curb emotions



6. Find significance



7. Build a resource budget



I hope that the tips will help you cope with procrastination, or at least begin to work on its elimination.

All good and clear goals!



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