10 ways to "pump up" charisma
If you possess powerful natural charisma, then it does not require any additional props. Even inattention to their appearance and public opinion can be its element. And if not? Then you can try to "grow" it.
Of course, what we are offering here is only an entourage, but without it is difficult. Develop charisma, just remember: it does not prepare as fast as instant coffee.
1. Set clear, understandable goals. Charge from them and charge them around. Desire to achieve the intended. Become a fanatical connoisseur and do not give up: charismatics are fighters.
2. Appreciate those who share your views and understand you. In any case, a charismatic is strong with a team that stands behind him.
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3. Do not be afraid to express your thoughts out loud, reasonably criticize authorities and cast doubt on any dogma.
4. Work on the image, watch your appearance, train your voice. Do not forget: “Rolex”, a cigar for $ 80 and “Bugatti” are many, but not charisma.
5. Do not be contradictory, be ambiguous. People are intrigued by combinations of polar properties. Do unexpected things and make unexpected, but not stupid decisions.
6. Never open up your thoughts to anyone. Create an atmosphere of some mystery around you. Do not advertise your actions and do not extolled yourself. People with charisma just do their job - but so that someone will tell about this later.
7. Be as free as possible and open to new experiences.
8. Learn to hold a pause and meaningfully be silent.
9. Don't be like everyone else. Be well-read, know that which almost nobody knows. Get into unusual habits, hobbies and interests.
10. Do not show excessive emotions, do not complain and do not cool the novels in the service - all this kills the charisma outright.
PS: I do not like all these "20 ways to become rich (smart, funny, influential)", which are now flooded the Internet. But sometimes it is difficult to present information in a different form, especially since the “list” form lays out thoughts on the shelves, structures them.
Website: Self-development for smart people
Of course, what we are offering here is only an entourage, but without it is difficult. Develop charisma, just remember: it does not prepare as fast as instant coffee.
1. Set clear, understandable goals. Charge from them and charge them around. Desire to achieve the intended. Become a fanatical connoisseur and do not give up: charismatics are fighters.
2. Appreciate those who share your views and understand you. In any case, a charismatic is strong with a team that stands behind him.
')
3. Do not be afraid to express your thoughts out loud, reasonably criticize authorities and cast doubt on any dogma.
4. Work on the image, watch your appearance, train your voice. Do not forget: “Rolex”, a cigar for $ 80 and “Bugatti” are many, but not charisma.
5. Do not be contradictory, be ambiguous. People are intrigued by combinations of polar properties. Do unexpected things and make unexpected, but not stupid decisions.
6. Never open up your thoughts to anyone. Create an atmosphere of some mystery around you. Do not advertise your actions and do not extolled yourself. People with charisma just do their job - but so that someone will tell about this later.
7. Be as free as possible and open to new experiences.
8. Learn to hold a pause and meaningfully be silent.
9. Don't be like everyone else. Be well-read, know that which almost nobody knows. Get into unusual habits, hobbies and interests.
10. Do not show excessive emotions, do not complain and do not cool the novels in the service - all this kills the charisma outright.
PS: I do not like all these "20 ways to become rich (smart, funny, influential)", which are now flooded the Internet. But sometimes it is difficult to present information in a different form, especially since the “list” form lays out thoughts on the shelves, structures them.
Website: Self-development for smart people
Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/17956/
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